Cyber Frogs And Princes. A Sex Manual Of On-Line Dating After 50
Suze Q
Synopsis "Cyber Frogs And Princes. A Sex Manual Of On-Line Dating After 50"
What if Sex and the City's Carrie Bradshaw were real -older, sharper, a former "Valley Girl" living on the West Coast and starting her sex life over, seeking a second chance romance? That's Cyber Frogs and Princes: A Sex Manual of On-Line Dating After 50.
Cultural and narrow-minded sexual taboos have little meaning for 50+-year-olds who want to write their life's next chapter. Some of Suze Q's affairs were steamy, filled with sexual passion neither had experienced before. The imagination and sexual liberation that an older woman brings to dating is a thrill-ride for both her and her partner. Sex toys, outfits, skin-on-skin, seduction, stiff nipples and moist lips are turn-ons that become finely honed with practice, and ward off the "rustiness" factor that Harvard researchers, Schwartz and Olds, says comes from lack of sex.
SQ's trysts and relationships are a personal account, after the divorce and the nest was empty, of those men she dated, and others that she bedded searching for her Prince Charming in the City of Angeles. The quest ran the gamut from mama's boys, bad boys and con men, to the over-sexed and the under-sexed, the commitment-phobes and the serial daters, to those looking for one good woman and those looking for one night stands.
Through the lens of her Ph.D. as a clinical psychologist, and as a passionate woman, Suze Q's book began as a diary, then a memoir, before maturing into a how-to manual. Recognizing that the old adage of we die alone needed to be rewritten, SQ invites her readers to join in the journey, beginning with a fun mental makeover to recapture the best parts of the reader's previous world and modernize it to slip-slide seamlessly into the final and third stage of life. Today's cyber dating can be a daunting trial by on-line-dating fire. This book lends a helping hand, filled with tips and quips to bravely navigate the bumps and barriers that block finding a good forever partner, or to just have fun kissing frogs.
Suze Q's adventures with a bounty of men are catalogued according to frog types that women are cautioned to avoid: The FOI/C Frog (Fear of Intimacy/Commitment-loosely rhymes with that age-old Anglo-Saxon term for sexual intercourse), The Sex Teaser, The Not Over His XYZ and others. Other chapters are tongue-in-cheek educational information about: What You Should Know About: Me, Anatomically You, Sex Toys, Masturbation, Myself, Oral Sex, The Core of a Man, and Love and Sex After 60, with the goal to demystify late-in-life sex and romance and make them likely, realistic achievements.
SQ's proffer is for older daters to have fun exploring their sex lives. On-line dating in one's golden years is not commonly thought of as typical women's issues. It should be. Older women (and those who love them) are the largest demographic in the world, and by 2030, there will be more 65-year-olds than 18-year-olds. These 150 million feisty women are leaders of the third act of the longevity revolution, ready to rewrite, again, the outdated rulebooks of sex, love, and living.
